Destined to be friends… A Clickin’ Moms Inspired Friendship

I am convinced that God brings people into your life for a reason. To fulfill a need that maybe you don’t know is a need yet, but He sees that it is. As I reflect on this story, which I am about to share (it’s long so grab your coffee), I am thankful for His plan.

I belong to a photographers forum called Clickin Moms. This forum has been a source of great inspiration for me, both in my photography and personal photography journey. I have meet colleges, both near (Hi, Christine!) and far (Hi, Kathleen). I have taken classes that have allowed me to grow as a photographer.

About two years ago, there was a post for CM Pen Pals. The idea was that CM would pair up two photographers, with children similar ages, to start a fun pen pal project. Having two boys old enough to write, I thought this would be a good opportunity for them to learn about another part of the country or world and exercise their writing skills. Little did I know, it would become less of a learning vehicle for them and more for me. I was paired up with a Canadian named Kathleen. She lived not to far from my home state of Michigan, so I was actually familiar with her neck of the woods, the weather and the climate. Living in the heat of South Carolina, I thought my children would get a kick of out seeing pictures of snow.

20140728_7365 copy 2

Baby toes in the sand by Kathleen

The first interactions were formal and getting to know each other. She had two boys that were the same age as my boys. I had two boys and a little girl, 17 months. She was a hobbyist photographer, that mainly focused on her family and more of a lifestyle approach. I was in business and did mostly outdoor both posed and causal. After the formal exchanges, I confessed that we were trying to have a fourth child. We had been trying for awhile and it just wasn’t happening as quickly as we had hoped. She told me that they too were trying for their third! So, fast forward a month later, I happily announced that I was expecting! Due at the end of December. A month later, I get an email from Kathleen announcing that she too was expecting, due in January! So now I have a friend who will be pregnant at the same time. I thought this is going to be fun!

Kathleen: I’m so thankful that we found out we were expecting at the same time. I think it would have been really hard for only one of us to go through it knowing the other wanted another baby so badly. Again, God works in mysterious ways.

20140730_7664 kneditThis is my family, photographed by Kathleen, who has now launched her photography

business called Hope + Salt

Over the few months, we shared so much about ourselves, both with our pregnancies and our lives. The emails went from formal to casual, from a few times a week, to a few times a day. Then we decided that texting was necessary for those moments when we just HAD to tell someone something. I think now we text at least 20 times a day! Our friendship has grown. We are so similar, yet different. It works for us. Kathleen found out the gender of her baby and we did not. We shared joys, fears, photography and baby names. The openness of our friendship resulted in being very close friends, very fast.

Kathleen: Don’t forget about our love of Costco! How many times have we competed to see who could get in and out the fastest, or spend the most money. Don’t tell our husbands!

family photographer charelston
Kathleen and her family in Charleston, photographed by me.

On Christmas night, I woke up in labor. As my husband and I were on the way to the hospital to have the baby, I emailed Kathleen to let her know that we were on our way to meet our baby. We had a c-section at 2:30am on December 26th and welcomed a sweet girl, Mabry. 10 days later, I got an email from Kathleen saying she had the baby at home during a terrible ice storm and welcomed a sweet boy named Todd. Very different experiences, but the same none the less.

Kathleen: That was a fun time for us. So much joy in a few short days.

We utilized Facetime to “meet” each other’s babies and hear each others voices. That was also to really check each other out a bit, as Kathleen and her family decided that they would come to Charleston that summer to meet us and vacation. She took a risk…and it turned out to be a wonderful week together. Our families got along amazingly well. She opened that door the first time and it was like seeing someone you knew for your whole life. Our husbands got along so well! The children, all 7 of them, were fast friends too and what a week it was! Every day we were together.

Kathleen: I will never forget that trip as long as I live. We could hardly wait to get together with all of you everyday. My kids are convinced that your kids are cousins by the way. It’s the cutest thing. I’m just going to run with that. Family is forever.

Charleston Beach Photographer

Our crew!  Photographed by Kathleen

Naturally on this vacation, there was photography. I admire Kathleen’s work so much that I insisted that she take some pictures of my family and I would do the same for her. Her approach is a little different than mine, and I loved the way she saw my family. The images she gave me are some of my favorites to this day. I took them to Boone Hall Plantation and took their family pictures. We also handed our cameras over to our husband to get pictures of us together. There aren’t many, a photographer can’t let go of our cameras for long! Ha.

kathleen-1-16Kathleen and I taken by Kathleen’s husband.  Yes, children are running around us constantly!  

Fast forward to today. We text every day. We share images that we have taken recently, ask for and accept criticism from each other and encourage each other to grow in our photography. We tell stories of our children, listen to each other have crazy days, amazing moments, lost teeth, sick family members, bumps and bruises and joyful moments. We talk about the next time we will see each other. Kathleen and her family lives approximately 938 miles from me. 938 miles is a long way. However, this friendship is just a short distance away in my heart.  We are now planning our next visit together this summer.  We are literally counting down the days.

Kathleen: You’ve encouraged me so much lately. Pushing me to open up and share my work more. Thank you for that.

 

kathleen-1-20

Kathleen’s oldest, Erik, taken by me.

I know that I will be friends with Kathleen for all of my days. I know that our families will go through so much over the years and we will be right there listening to each other along the way. So, for this friendship, I have to thank Clickin Moms for introducing me to one of my best friends. You have no idea how much it has meant to me.

20140730_7657 copy

My older daughter, photographed by Kathleen

Kathleen: Sniff, sniff. I feel the same way. You’re one of a kind, Molly. I’m so happy we were thrown together by luck of the draw.

We were destined to be friends. He made it that way and I am a better person for it.

:: Mo

BACK TO TOP|CONTACT ME|SHARE ON FACEBOOK|TWEET THIS POST
Linda Neufeld - March 26, 2015 - 3:59 am

What a wonderful story and friendship! A best friend is forever!

Stryker Sneak Peek | Downtown Charleston Family Photographer

I had the pleasure of meeting these amazing girls this past week. We had such a great time exploring the streets of downtown Charleston. These girls were so well behaved and such a joy to be around!

Here is a sneak peek for the Stryker family!

:: MO

Charleston Family PhotographerCharleston Family PhotographerCharleston Family Photographer

To book your Charleston family session contact me!

BACK TO TOP|CONTACT ME|SHARE ON FACEBOOK|TWEET THIS POST

At Home on Daniel Island | Charleston Lifestyle Photographer

I love the Yeagles. They see the value in having portraits each year (or a few times a year). They love to document their amazing family and they take great care to choose each portrait and style it on the walls in their home. I love going there to see my work displayed so beautifully!

This year when Stephanie reached out to me and suggested that we have the session at their home, I was so excited!! They have an amazing home and I just love shooting there. We decided that their master bedroom was THE place to be and here is the result.

Charleston Family Lifestyle PhotographerCharleston Family Lifestyle PhotographerCharleston Family Lifestyle PhotographerCharleston Family Lifestyle PhotographerCharleston Family Lifestyle PhotographerCharleston Family Lifestyle PhotographerCharleston Family Lifestyle PhotographerCharleston Family Lifestyle PhotographerCharleston Family Lifestyle PhotographerCharleston Family Lifestyle PhotographerCharleston Family Lifestyle Photographer

I am so proud of this session and the relationship that I have with the Yeagles. I can honestly say that our relationship has grown beyond professional to a personal friendship. I cherish it so much!

A million thanks to this family for opening up their home and their friendship to me!

:: MO

BACK TO TOP|CONTACT ME|SHARE ON FACEBOOK|TWEET THIS POST

Beautiful Family Session in Downtown Charleston | Charleston Family Photographer

I have been photographing this family for a few years now. I enjoy watching little Caroline grow and spending time with them. They are so much fun!

Charleston Family Photographer
Charleston Family Photographer

I just love how Caroline loves her Momma. She is so close to her and it shows!
Charleston Family Photographer
Charleston Family Photographer

During my downtown sessions, we have a lot of fun. We walk around and find all kinds of beautiful spots to shoot. I call it an adventure walk. It helps keep the children entertained, but also allows many different backdrops!
Charleston Family Photographer
Charleston Family Photographer

2015-03-09_0007Charleston Family Photographer

Thank you to the Brewer family! I loved this session and our time together!

:: Mo

BACK TO TOP|CONTACT ME|SHARE ON FACEBOOK|TWEET THIS POST
Kathleen Neufeld - March 9, 2015 - 2:46 pm

Such a gorgeous family and session! Wow.

Tandy Baerst - March 9, 2015 - 5:28 pm

So beautiful.

Charleston Beach Photographer: Ward Family

The Ward family came all the way from Ohio just to visit the beautiful beaches of Charleston. While they were here they wanted to capture this wonderful moment by having beach portraits taken. I was the lucky photographer they chose to do that.

I had to much fun with this family. We laughed and I loved their sense of humor. They were warm, casual and so friendly! If they lived closer, we’d be friends- for sure.

Alright, some of these need introductions because unless you were there with tears rolling down your face from laughing, you won’t get it.

So, we saw these piers and said we will use them. Then as he stood up on it, we both thought that it was like the Karate Kid and then, of course, the move had to come out. DANIEL-SON! Hilarious.

As we were taking the portraits, we looked down and what do you know a friendly little crab joined us for a bit. He was quite well behaved as we all checked him out.

Okay- wait. Hold the phone on this next one. This is probably one of my favorite ones from the year. Not that I don’t love all my clients sessions, but this one?! I just loved it. These two beauties have been together for about 5 years. We took a few with just the two of them. I told them to kiss, as I had an image in my mind. They looked at me like I was crazy. I said, “trust me.” They did and THIS is the result. I love this one. It just captures their young love for one another. Beautiful!!

So with that, the Wards returned reluctantly to Ohio and I told them that I sincerely hoped our paths crossed again in the very near future.

Thank you Ward family!

:: MO

BACK TO TOP|CONTACT ME|SHARE ON FACEBOOK|TWEET THIS POST
Kathleen - February 17, 2015 - 9:49 am

Gorgeous as always, Molly.